How can I tell if someone is pregnant?

After having sex and a girl notices that she missed her periods, it may be possible that she is pregnant. Apart from that, she may feel unwell, nauseated and have episodes of vomiting.  The breasts also become fuller. A girl can confirm her pregnancy with a pregnancy test which can be purchased at the, local pharmacy, supermarket or consult with a doctor. If the pregnancy test is positive, the girl is advised to seek consultation and counselling from a doctor.
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What if someone finds out that she is pregnant?

Finding out that you or your partner is pregnant when not expected can be alarming. An early unplanned pregnancy may bring many scary emotions, especially when the couple is not married.

DO NOT WORRY! There is help and support available. It is most important that the girl remains healthy and safe. You may also talk to someone who you can trust for advice and support.

A girl with an unplanned pregnancy do have options. These options are:
  • Parenting: This means carrying the baby to full term and then continuing to take care of the child as the biological parent. The parents of the baby may or may not decide to get married.
  • Adoption: This means carrying the baby for 9 months, and then handing over the child to adoptive parents. It is important that this is done legally, to ensure the baby has documentation, and give him/her the best opportunity in life. There is also a possibility to give the baby to foster parents to take care of your baby, while you finish school until you are more able to take responsibility of the child. [Orphancare +60 3-7876 1900]
  • Abortion: This means termination of a pregnancy. This option is further discussed in further topics.
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The partner/man is equally responsible for the consequences of pregnancy and it will be best if the decision is made jointly and respected. The partner’s role will assist in this emotional time together