In committing to sexual abstinence, you are committing to:
  • Not have lustful thoughts about the opposite sex.
  • Do not use words that demean or sexualise the opposite sex.
  • Not to allow emotions to dictate your boundaries.
  • Not to manipulate your partners feeling’s to get sex.

Sex is more that the act of sexual intercourse itself. It is not only about saying “no” to intercourse. It is also no pornography, no kissing and no sex. It is also about making a choice for yourself for your future.

What skills can help you and your friends maintain abstinence or postpone sexual activity?
  • Ability to resist pressure.
  • Respect your partner’s feelings.
  • A high degree of self-control.